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Follow along as our new ACC President and CEO, Veta T. Richardson, chronicles her first year at ACC, with this monthly blog series. The voice, views and stories expressed in this series are of the author and are not ACC's. To read the first installment of this series, click here.
On the Importance of Mentoring
Short of educational preparedness, having a mentor is probably the single most important factor separating those who succeed versus those who stumble or fail. That, or a rich parent!
While so many successful people like to tell stories of how they pulled themselves up by their bootstraps, going from rags to riches, the truth is that everyone has help along the way. There are no truly “self made” successful people. And at various junctures in our professional lives, we will be in the position of seeking a mentor or serving as a mentor to others.
So, where does one find a mentor to help guide and develop her career path? Potential mentors are all around you –– they are members of professional associations or alumni networks to which you belong, they are in your workplace, they are family members, friends or friends of friends. The possibilities are as endless as the many avenues you have to meet and connect with others. However, finding the right mentor first requires a little self-analysis: What are you looking for in the relationship? What types of advice are you seeking?
Once you have clear objectives, it will become easier to identify people who have the knowledge and perspectives that you are seeking. Your next step is putting yourself in the right place to initiate an opening conversation with your potential mentor. Once you have that opportunity, be honest and genuine about your desire for their help, which should not include asking them to help you find a job. That’s not the best way to start a relationship with a mentor. A better approach would be to ask for advice about how to best present yourself, learn more about a topic of interest, or identify the knowledge and skills gaps between where you are and where you want to go.
On the flip side, being a good mentor to others will teach you a lot about how to best utilize and develop your relationship with your own mentor. You will grow by seeing the world through another’s experience, and hone your problem solving skills as you listen to their challenges and offer advice.
In this first year as ACC president, I am experiencing mentorship first hand through my relationship with Fred Krebs, ACC's former president. Even when I was executive director of the Minority Corporate Counsel Association (MCCA), Fred was an experienced bar association leader to whom I turned for advice as I navigated unfamiliar situations. These days, I feel especially lucky to have him as a resource. He understands the nuances of ACC’s governance framework, and shares the history that underlies how things are now done and the lessons he learned over 20 successful years in this role. We get together pretty regularly, and Fred remains a trusted advisor.
In this role, I am also sought out by others who are mid-career or just getting started. Last month, I met a wonderful group of law students at the National Asian Pacific American Bar Association (NAPABA) Annual Meeting, which took place in Atlanta. Law students from all over the country, the vast majority of whom were of Asian heritage, were invited to participate in a program called “8 Minute Mentoring,” hosted by my former colleagues at MCCA. Although I am not Asian American, the group made me feel fully included and welcomed. If you aren't involved with NAPABA, you should really check them out. The students asked some tough questions about how to navigate their way through a very difficult time when job opportunities are scarce. I did my very best to offer them good advice. But imagine how gratifying it was to return to my office and receive a number of handwritten notes and emails to let me know that my time with them was valuable and appreciated.
So, I am a big believer in the power of mentoring and invite you to experience it first-hand with the support of ACC, whether you are seeking a mentor or wish to offer to be a mentor to someone else.
Fortunately, ACC is able to help with both needs –– the opportunity to be a mentor as well as to connect with a mentor. ACC’s new mentoring program –– a peer-to-peer initiative designed to help you grow your career, while helping others advance theirs –– is has no formal requirements for participation. We only ask that mentors and mentees who are located in the same city meet for lunch three times a year, and that mentors be available to provide advice via phone when needed. Beyond this, mentors and mentees are free to contact each other as often as they like.
It’s easy to get started: Just login to the community platform and select the “Enroll as a Mentee” or “Enroll as a Mentor” tab to the left. Once you enroll, you can find mentors or mentees based on geographic location, industry or discipline!
To learn more about this program, visit http://community.acc.com/mentoring. Still have questions? Email membership@acc.com.
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